Many of us seem so lost and consumed by what is right and what is wrong. How we are perceived by others and how we fit into our society. We become driven in order to prove other wrong and to show a stance by looking tall and fearless. Why?
Why is it so important for us to show how sharp our teeth are? What is it that we having running in our minds that makes us feel that we have to behave in matter?
We have been preprogrammed to behave in such an un natural way that it doesn’t even agree with our own state of mind nor our inner spirit. We are full aware this isn’t right, so why do we continue to feel and behave like this.
Often these feelings are overwhelming by the way people speak openly about their cultural beliefs, religious beliefs and personal beliefs. The ego mind that drives people to this state confusion – between the “wants” and the “needs” no discrimination between any of these. We come across people that give into the wants as the ego mind will always rule over the soft natural whisper of our conscience.
In general we all think with our mind and feel with our intuition, instead of than sitting back and being an observer of what our heart truly desires and what it genuinely needs.
When we write a list of the things we wish for and start to differentiate between the two, we begin to discover that our needs are simpler. Our goals and personal achievements are easier to reach and everything is only a stone through away of completing our tasks.
So why this emotional rollercoaster ?
Why do we become so self confined in the way we think?
Most of the time we all believe to be ‘right’ and stand by our beliefs and discuss these strong feelings with others.
We all make a choice if we choose to listen to opinions of others, or just talk over them – cutting each other off mid way of conversation.
This is what passion is …
But, we never stop to listen and hear the voice of others and their point of view. To feel and observe the other persons passion.
So quick to judge, yet never quick enough to observe our own faults, our own issues and our mistakes. Becoming others rather than ourselves – our true selves.
We become followers rather than individuals.
What we think is normal in almost all cases it isn’t, we are just behaving in matter that we felt was true to our inner being at the time of what we have intended.
Something so simple – suddenly became so complicated.
Something so beautiful became so ugly.
Something so loving became so hateful.
Something so happy became so sad and full of pain.
What can break our spirit so much, that even during the hard times we manage to not find the strength fight it and just allow the truth unfold and make peace with it.
Not falling into the drama of the story, but seeing it from a different angle a different light and perspective.
Embracing the truth …