No need to run after happiness if you want to live. No need to look for an ideal if you want to be a pure conscience with you. You don't have to do this for a goddess if you want to be appreciated. You don't have to look at other women. Be you. Until all. Be so that you enjoy in you, in any of your modes. Be sincere and natural. Be you.
Finds happiness, who you motivates and lives-on maximum. Learn from the things you do and learn to fail. And to understand, at last, that there are no failures, neither in life, nor in the relations. Experiences, lessons, best, moments search. Lives in them and on them. Don't waste time on people who aren't fit, you're a woman. Don't live for tomorrow, live for now.
Do not try to conquer every man, you run the risk of not winning any. Don't try to be the most beautiful, not paying attention to other things. You risk being unhappy. It's all up to you and everything that ties your decisions and your way to be. Build the happiness on the fulfillment of spiritual and not on material things. Being unique is not quality, it is rather dissatisfaction that can last a lifetime. Be as happy as you are. Be you.