We complicate it, thinking that one day, somehow, sometime, he or she will still be with us. And we will be happy and we will live happily ever after. And we will have three beautiful children and a house. Hmm, and if we don't have? It's nice to think by attaching a sentimental person to what you want him to be around, but it's not right to explain emotions, it's for centuries. Because the very moment you do this, you run the risk of getting rid of the person who really loves you and with whom even you could build this future beautifully.
Illusions, most often, are obstacles to happiness. Top, obstacles created all of us. We are expanding to dream nicely, to imagine a life that has never been possible, and to have a person next to us who has never been ours. Some will say that this is true love: when you love, you do not expect something. I would suggest to add a bit of reciprocity, for all the work with love. Because to love and to be loved is more Supreme than to live with someone in thought.
Us complicate the, too many us complicate the. We become dependent on the past, which has long been ours and the person who no longer wants to live. And what's happening? The other happy, and we blame, that this is not with us. And desire to consume of last breath love, we do what you want for real. Empty, empty inside, no sequence. It's killing us. And it's wrong. Lives in the present, and the person at the present time – will tell you, every time.