Imagine that you need to buy a car. How much time to spend to find the best solution in your case? You focus on many aspects, I think you think you should be useful for several years at least. But when you buy a house? I suspect that more time and energy invested in the choice, but you can spend there most of my life.
As responsible persons, review the settings you have the patience to find the option that is closest to what you want and don't make easy compromises. Be patient, search for, inspect, take all important aspects into account, analyze if you can afford to you, and then to take care of. Now, open your eyes and for a few seconds to be there to deliberately respond to the following question: when you choose a life partner, why not do so? You say that I say nonsense, because there issues are totally different.
What case is the purchase of a car or home, with love. Clearly, there are various options. The house will not make us happy, we will make a friend, when we return from work in the evening. The machine will not be near us when we are sick. The car or at home, while useful, they are objects. Partner is a man. Truth! I'm trying and I'm talking about. And what we care about much more choice than we've had enough, partner?
Why do we assume that if we like her/him, if we-I fell in love and we-I said ”relationship”, then the rest will come by itself? Why do you consider that, after several years have passed, no matter how well we know if we have the values, General principles, if we know where we are going if we communicate well enough how to overcome difficulties, but we assume that it is natural to take the next step. Moreover, the whole world asks you: ”when you do a wedding?”.
Selectable, unfortunately, much easier, alongside whom we live, what we buy, what we consume. I ask myself: why don't we choose the car just because we liked the color, as if has a shape that is beautiful? Why not buy a house just because we liked at first glance and we-I fell in love with her?
Because, in such situations, and not even all, but most, we are more conscious and responsible. And it is good that we do. Only in the relationship we feel that we understand perfectly, and it is not necessary to be careful, but on the contrary, as we lose our minds easier and dream more beautiful, the more we feel genuine love. And maybe that's true. Until we Wake up and realize that I was out of sight many aspects.
Choose a responsible partner! Be careful what to show you and do not be misleading them with promises. Choose partners that you know how well you can. Be curious to know what likes, dislikes, what are your plans for the future is how the story of life, their friends, what values are important what is the guiding principle. Spend more time, as you know, before you decide plans together.
You believe in the potential of evolution partner, but do not be fooled. Not love, promising that change, you might be disappointed. Better open my eyes and see what he sees, and not what you represent. Appreciate more the reality than illusions and dreams. You can dream together, based on the qualities you possess in reality.
Rely on what you feel that tells you the intuition, sometimes deceiving us and pay attention, curiosity and interest, as it thinks, behaves as a partner from the beginning. Give a chance, but be realistic about results. Very different from what is in the beginning, will not. For this reason, I urge you: choose carefully, partner. You have the patience, you know someone who you merits and work with you to become the person who is to deserve a good man. Develop harmoniously and to choose responsible people who you appreciate, respect and with whom you need to build, not after, to recover.
Choose carefully, partner, next to which you want to live your life, because this choice will depend mainly in your moments of happiness or sadness because with her you will share what needs to happen!
Take care!