The world is a place of fantasy and hope. A place of wishful thinking to be a better self soar, both for the life of the world and for life after the world. Lifespan is a place where prayer is echoed with hope will come true. This is not wrong. Because only in the life of the world just hope it can be done. If the universe of nature has been abandoned to the next, then that is the end of wishing.
When reality does not match expectations, then that is the root of the problems that occur in human life. Because the problem is the gap between expectations and reality. When the environment does not match what we expect, do not make it away from it. Because not all things can be in accordance with what we expect. But try to understand it as one of the phenomena of life and mingle with that environment. Because humans are social beings who can not live alone without interacting with their environment.
So is the human around us. When the other person is not the same as us, or the person is not in accordance with our expectations, then do not be too hopeful the person will be in accordance with our expectations. Because what we want is not necessarily in accordance with the wishes of others. And we should understand that diversity will make life colorful. Garden bungapun will look boring if it only consists of flowers with the same color. Conversely, the diversity of colors will make the park more beautiful to look at. Therefore, let not mismatch between expectation and reality makes us impose the will. Because everyone is entitled to determine the 'color' of each. What needs to be pursued is the unification of these colors to be a beautiful and unsightly unity.