Vampires? What? The bloodsucker kind from fairy tales ?
No! I am talking about the realistic kind - the kind that sap us from our energy , the kind that are everywhere!- all around us, just waiting on their opportunity to devour us! Energy Vampires!
Energy Vampires are basically energy suckers, feeding off our life energy and force.
In the instance of their psychic attack.
You will encounter misery at a level you could not even imagine.
There are two different types of Energy Vampire -
Physical and the Non Physical.
Physical Energy Vampires
There are certain people that will walk in and our of your life who cannot help but drain energy from those they come into contact with. Often with emotional or mental issues being the route cause of their feeding - they cannot help but consume you. The energetic element of this person attaches itself to you sinking its teeth in.
The scary thing is, It can be any person throughout your life - a family member, friend , co worker etc.
Non-Physical Energy Vampires
These are more 'trickster' types who enter our lives obscurely and with great satisfaction. This makes them opportunists as they can bound to our energies sapping the life out of us. Their presence is high in areas of our life we associate with negative energy such as trauma, battling addiction, anxiety and depression etc. You are left with almost nothing , a feeling of depletion and a spiral that fools you into believing your feelings are out of your control, such feelings that can be harmful in the long run.
Ways That Can Help
1.Stop Trying To Fit in, in Order To Please Others.
When you are constantly trying to please the crowd in order to feel accepted, you are allowing yourself to be walked on. You should never let yourself be anything else then what you truly are, especially for the sake of others. If a person is making you feel this way this should be enough of a hint that they are the wrong kind of company for you.
2.Don't communicate with someone who talks AT you instead of TO you.
When you feel drained after being in the presence of someone, it may even be a phone call is enough to realize that alarm bells are ringing in the direction where that person is not apart of your life anymore.
3. Don't let people make you feel guilty for not living up to their expectations.
4.Refuse to let others walk all over you.
Always follow your own path , which means making your own decisions. If something gives you a negative bad feeling, listen to it. Do not let negative people influence and manipulate your good decisions for the wrong reasons.
5.Do not have meaningless sex.
You should be sharing intimate relationships with someone who loves and respects you as you do them, not with a person you know deep down is using you. Meaningful sex will always be the most important kind.
6.Do not stay in abusive situations.
Remember that in doing this you could also be stealing another persons energy as a replacement to combat the loss of your own.
If you want to make sure you are not stealing the energy of others , remain humble ,always maintain a good sense of self-love within yourself and do not be afraid to let your inner strength soar
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Sources :
Energy Feeding: Dealing With Physical and Non-Physical Energy Vampires
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