Stop seeing or judging others is only limited to what appears in your eyes for a moment, because it will be a big mistake, if later you conclude it is wrong.
Because sometimes what appears in the eye is not the real one. The proof is not a few of us who see other people despicable, as if full of ugliness because of his occasional appearance, even though when he worshiped sometimes he was more sincere than us. Subhan Allah
And not infrequently we also meet some of us who sometimes have good looks, good speech, sweet actions but only a mere mode, just because they want to know what weaknesses we have. Na'udzubillah
So the point is, recognize it, approach it, and understand how they really are, so that at the end of the story you do not make conclusions and are not wrong in interpreting how it really is.
Wherever you are and at any time remain wise in your heart to carefully assess the condition of others, do not see it only as a mere casing, for fear that what you see is not real. The fear you see again is not something that should not be a conclusion.
Yups, don't judge it only with your fleeting vision, especially those who did wrong to you, for fear of dominating feelings of inferiority concluded something inappropriate.
For fear, what you see is just a snapshot, and you walk with your hate feelings. Because, anyone who has a heart of hatred, hatred and resentment, of course as good as anyone else will remain wrong in his eyes.
Then how do you see it, whereas we don't have a sixth sense? Then the answer is to look at his heart, look at his sincerity, and see how his attitude and behavior.
Do not let you be fooled to see his external appearance, his position and his title, because not a few in the present 3 things that guarantee others can be good and sincere.
And what you need to note again, do not you ever judge other people based on short stories at a glance, especially those who are the communicators are those who are fond of gossiping and cause slander, so it is very likely that the story is no longer accurate.
It could be that there are many words that have added words that are subtracted, and if it is true, then we too, as listeners, will get a big sin because of gossip and slander.
In essence, do not first conclude, convict, judge, and judge other people's circumstances only in accordance with something that appears in front of the eyes.
But it is wise to judge things with humility, so that whenever you are not easily punish or just judge.