Relationships between people with each other are necessary in everyday life, because humans are social beings who can't live alone or still need help from other parties. Socializing is also very important in building a good relationship between people with each other. If there is no individual, then the family and society will not be created. Likewise the individual, will not be able to walk alone if there is no family and community, because with family and society, every individual can express all things related to social. Individual aspects, family, society and culture are social aspects that can't be separated.
INDIVIDUAL
The social life between individuals and individuals is the beginning of the formation of family and society. This is the first step in establishing the existing social relationships in family and community life. Such as, without individual family and society will not be created and vice versa. A good socialization relationship between individuals with each other is very important in creating a regular social society life. Good relationships between individuals and individuals are necessary because this is the earliest established relationship in social life. From the above description we can know that the relationship of individuals and society can be seen from the aspect of society solely (totalism), in the case of individuals only (individualism) and in terms of individual and community interaction.
Individuals are always looking for various environments but the first environment will be temuai by individuals is the family environment, because the family environment is an aspect for individuals to be able to develop the ability or capacity. In the family environment indirectly individuals have come into direct contact with various social aspects. And while in the community environment is an advanced aspect of the family environment, the public environment is so wide that the individual can express something that has been learned in the family environment.
Individuals can't yet be regarded as individuals if they have not been cultivated. This means that only individuals are able to develop their individual potentials as individuals. To develop this humanitarian potential or to be cultured requires the media of family and society. This is the opinion of the Spencer, Pareto, Ward, Comte, Durkheim, Summer, and Weber. Individual is an individual being composed of or formed from three aspects, namely physical, physical, psychological, and social aspects. And to form these three aspects man must carry out some form of sosilization and that is what can form these three aspects.
One form of socialization is the pattern of parenting in the family, considering one family function is as a medium of transmission over values, norms and symbols embraced by the community to its new members. In society there are various forms of family in which the process of organizing has its own background and purpose. This family institution is not a definite phenomenon but a changing phenomenon, because in this family order there are a number of crises. The crisis that some feared would undermine this family's order. But for the whole community, whatever the crisis, the family institutions will survive.
FAMILY
Individual aspects, family, society and culture are social aspects that can not be separated. All of that has a very close relationship. If there are no individuals then no family and society will be created. Individuals can not walk alone without family and society because family and society are the media to express its social aspect. In the social sciences individuals are the smallest part of society that can not be separated into smaller parts. For example, the family as the smallest social group consists of father, mother and child. Father is an indivisible individual, as is Mother. Children can still be divided because in the family the number of children can be more than one. In family life, good socialization is needed in maintaining the harmony of family relationships. The family is the main environment in shaping the personality of members in the family. Family as media to train members in doing things related to social. Good training will create a good family life in a social environment. A harmonious relationship in the family is very important to form a good person, because whatever happens in the family will have a huge impact on each family member. As individuals will not be able to walk alone without family as a medium to express all matters relating to social problems.
SOCIETY LIFE
Reliable relationships within the community are the result of a good relationship between individuals and individuals and in family relationships. Just like family, society is a medium to express all matters relating to social problems. Individuals will not be able to walk well without the community. Society is a group of individuals who enter into collective agreements to jointly manage life. There are various reasons why these people enter into agreements to form a life together. These reasons include biological, psychological, and social reasons. The formation of life together itself through several stages of interaction, adaptation, organizing behavior, and the formation of group feelings. After passing through these stages, then the so-called community formed, among others, is a hunter and gatherer community, breeders, horticulture, farmers, and industry. Within the body of society itself there are elements of social alliance, social control, social media, and social size. Social control in society is done through several ways that basically aim to control the behavior of citizens so as not to deviate from what has been agreed upon. However, that does not mean that what has been mutually agreed has never changed. Elements in the community are always changing where the scope can be both micro and macro.
What constitutes mutual agreement among people is culture, which among others is defined as the pattern of life in society. Culture here is understood as an observable phenomenon whose cultural form is a social system consisting of a series of patterned actions aimed at meeting the needs of life. A series of patterned or cultural actions are owned by individuals through a learning process that consists of internalization, socialization, and enculturation processes.
The relationship between society and the individual can be described as a positive pole and a negative pole on the flow of electricity. If the two poles are connected electrically it will be able to give strength to him and create a bright atmosphere. If individuals and communities are united then the lives of individuals and communities will be more passionate and the atmosphere of individual life and community life will be more meaningful and lively and passionate.
It can be concluded that the relationship of individuals and society according to individualistic understanding. Individualism is a notion that states that in the life of an individual the interests and needs of the individual are more important and on the needs and interests of society. Individuals who determine the style of society that cool. Society must serve individual interests. Individuals have an absolute right and should not be usurped by society for the sake of the public.
The idea of individualism is also called Atomism. Atomism argues that the relationship between individuals is like the relationship between the atoms that make up the molecules. Therefore this relationship is outward. Not an important unity but an important diversity in society.
This autonomistic individualistic view is rooted in the nominalism of a philosophical school which holds that the general concepts do not represent the reality of a thing. The reality of that individual. The reality of society exists because the individual exists. If the individual does not exist then the society does not exist. So the existence of the individual is not dependent on the existence of society.
It can be concluded that all of them have a very close relationship. If there is no individual then no family and society will be created. Individuals can not walk alone without family and society because family and society are the media to express their social aspect. In the social sciences individuals are the smallest part of society that can not be separated into smaller parts. For example, the family as the smallest social group consists of father, mother and child. Father is an individual who can not be divided again, as well as Mother. Children can still be divided because in a family the number of children can be more than one.