One of the very first things people notice about you aside your shoes and dress sense is your CHARACTER. Like a piece of cloth, your character attracts people to you when it's CLEAN and repels good people away from you when it stinks.
People's character always determines their characteristics in life. No one can provoke what is not in you. How you react or respond to the things people do to you is a true reflection of your CHARACTER. You cannot respond beyond what is in you. In fact, you do on the OUTSIDE as the manner you feel in the INSIDE.
Your character will always promote or demote your gifts and talents is always supported by good character. Gifts and talents might take you to the top in life but you need CHARACTER to remain there. Where gifts open doors, Character opens it wider.
How you handle money is a reflection of your CHARACTER. When you have a character problem, you will certainly have a money problem because money always takes after the character of its owner. More money in the hands of a good man will achieve more good things whereas more money in the hands of a wicked man will support more wickedness.
For the rest of this year, CHARACTER might just make the difference for you. Maybe people saying "No" to you are just uncomfortable with your character. Maybe those opportunities you miss are just to help you re-evaluate yourself.
Building a good character is a journey, you can start yours right now!
TIPS:
Ask people what they really don't like about you
Get someone to insult you earnestly and see how you can live with those hurting words. It will teach you calmness
Never be too proud to admit that you made a mistake. We all make mistakes. Accept yours and apologize when necessary.
Never force your opinion on people. Avoid unnecessary arguments. It's okay if people don't see things in your own lens. Don't force them to because it shows a defective character.
Ally Over and Out!
