There is an amazing influencer Bad-Ass mama in instagram I am following. And I can't just pass by without sharing message of her husband to her.
I mean we are all not PERFECT at all! And to be honest perfect - is boring. We don't want perfect wives and husbands, because ANYTHING spoils and changes, this is the law of evolution.
But what we want is to have real experience. If its earning money! yes! if its losing money - so be it!
If its celebrating - Hooray! If its grieving, we can give our selves to the process fully.
I want to dedicate this post to MEN, who are husbands. Or perhaps not yet. But to wish you to find that woman, who will accept all your dark light and light darkness. And guess what!?
Every time you show up with acceptance of how your wife looks, smells, dresses, talks, cooks (you know those simple things), OMG she will forgive anything to you. She will make sure that you are nourished, supported and understood.
We women, are not that difficult to love at the end of the day (:
And also dedicating this post to all the WOMEN who are in relationship. Be soft and patient to your man. We have our chaotic, emotional characters. But you know, for us it is really easier to express and release our emotions. Because men are taught from childhood to be:
Strong boy
Not to cry
Chin up
You can do it
etc
Men are not taught how to express. And if they do, most of the times they are judged.
So here I am sharing this amazing message, together with photos of this inspiring family.
Enjoy!!
・・・
Hayley asked me to write something about her postpartum body.
I figured it’d be easy but then I started thinking—what is there to even write about?
Sure, things look and feel slightly different--but in the grand scheme of things, nothing changed.
The reasons I fell in love with her had nothing to do with any of the body parts affected by her postpartum.
She still has the same beautiful smile, determined mind, banging body, and strong work ethic as the girl I fell in love with over 15 years ago.
She still has the same sense of humor.
She still smells great and tastes great too.
Her postpartum body does look and feel slightly different, but why should that be a factor in my life at all?
The soft pillowy skin around her belly button held my three best friends for 18 months.
The marks show the strength it took to carry the weight of two beautiful girls that will be raised by this bad ass mom.
Nothing has changed or altered my love for my wife.
I get praised for being a ‘great husband’, but that’s nonsense.
I’m literally doing the bare minimum by loving my wife for who she is, “imperfections” and all.
Imperfections make the world fun.
If everything was Barbie doll perfect, wouldn’t we all get bored?
How else would we show what life has put us through?
So whether it’s regrettable tattoos, scars, surgeries, dumb facial hair, or a postpartum tummy, honestly...who gives a shit?
Be good to each other. Learn from mistakes-yours and others. Help those in need and let’s stop dwelling on who looks like what.
My wife isn’t perfect and that’s what makes me love her.
That’s why you are all reading this.
If she was perfect, not a one of you would be able to relate to her.
And to the husbands out there that don’t do their fair share of diaper duty, cooking, cleaning, and telling your wife how beautiful she is—step up your game bro.
You’re a team.
So yeah, I was supposed to write about a belly, but honestly it affects me so little that I rambled about everything else.
Let's stand up and give applause to Men, who see that Beauty is a Duty... and it comes from within!
Have a blessed day Crypto Fam!
Follow this family on instagram (: @th3littlestavenger