Your man tells you he is not planning on
having kids or getting married anytime soon as
he is still sorting out his life...
He tells you he wants to have his degree, a proper house and a bigger car first....
You sit there smilling with just a birth certificate thinking, "I'll be the wife."
With the little he has, you ask for Brazilian hair and Gucci... He goes to work and goes straight to class after work...
He leaves you in pyjamas and finds you in the same pyjamas.. While he studies, you watch Zee World and that other channel for Romantic Spanish movies.
He comes back home to find sadza and chicken in the microwave everyday... the house is clean and his clothes ironed...
The only serious conversation you have is about the type of groceries you guys need...
The only advice you give him is "babe you need to buy new socks, the ones you bought last time are torn", nothing intelligent comes out of your mouth..no plans of making your own life better..
Yes you are pretty...no doubt about that!, so is every second girl passing by..
Do you realise something? You are just like a maid to him....
He's gonna finish school and the first thing he's gonna do is "REPLACE HIS MAID" because he can now afford to pay one and have a PROPER WIFE/GF.
That's when we going to hear your famous last words "I was with him through thick and thin when he had nothing, now that he is successfull he thinks I am nothing"😒
Yes you are right...
You have always been NOTHING but a maid to him.
So Sister, get your acts together and start improving yourselves...👌
Add to your life values
You must not be in the university before you make it in life.
Start from where you are.
Good day everyone.