There is another life after wedding, which many single Ladies and some Gentle men have overlooked.
I have never heard that the United Nation or Federal Government gave someone an Award just because his wedding was the BEST in town.
Due to ignorance, Ego, Jealousy, and Zeal for material things, many Ladies today have subjected their husbands to a life of "starting afresh".
Most often you discover that, it is not that she wish to please herself, rather she wanna make a 'show' or to be better then her friend's wedding, there by making the young man to spend above his budget and will forget there is another life after wedding.
Wedding is a day event or occasion, while Marriage is an everlasting Union, until death do you part. Most people prepare so hard for a day event more then everlasting Union. You must renew your mind to cut your cloth according to your material.
It is your responsibility to tell him Honey we have another life after our wedding, let's be futuristic in our spending, It is better to package your wedding according to what you have then to satisfy people and go about borrowing.
Traditional wedding is good, but find out from him if he can carry it, not because all your friends did it does not mean you must do it. If he can't pls kindly go ahead with an indoor TM and plan your White wedding. If anything happens to your marriage after your wedding, the same people will still laugh at you.
There is no amount of food, drink, souvenir that people will not finish on a wedding. If its so much, they will take it home. So why killing yourself because of a day event?
Mind you, am not condemning big celebration of white Wedding or Traditional Wedding, am only saying there is another life after Wedding.
Tomorrow is too BIG to predict, anything can happen. That your boo you're calling 'big fish' can turn to 'small fish' tomorrow.
Cut your cloth according to your material.