Sometimes we are fooled into believing everything is perfect.... but sometimes it is just because we don’t have all the details ... we believe the guy we just met is the one .... but we don’t realize that he is constantly thinking of the girl he broke up with ... we don’t know that he is settling with us ....we think we were given a promotion because of our quality work and are soooo proud of ourselves .... meanwhile it is because the person we really wanted for the job just resigned to work with another company ... its crazy the amount of information we don’t know in situations... and how it changes the way we see things ... the way we feel ... we think everything is falling into place .... when really ... everything just fell apart. You weren’t a first choice ... you were a second or easier choice ..