In our society, supressing your emotions and pretending that we are fine (even if we're hurting under the mask) is propagated almost like a virtue. But the truth is, if you're carrying internal pain, that pain robs you of your strength and the ability to make the best choices in life.
For a warrior, it is important to make sure that he's at peace with himself. If you want to recover your strength, heal your heart. Once you've stopped your internal battles, your outer life will become more peaceful, too.
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