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Whenever there is a change occurance in our life that contradicts the free flow nature of it, then some may adopt to the situation and some may not be able to do it. This primarily maybe because some don't want to change the way they are living and will not be happy with the situation. These circumstances purely speculate the lack of understanding the nature of change in life.
Life may turn the tides along side of us or against us, if we go with the flow it pushes us further into the improvement if we accept that the change is part of the nature. Some may not accept and couldn't deal with it properly and fail to build their mind to keep their cool in those situations. Obstacles are the essence of life and so is the happy moments, both need to be dealt with a cool mind instead of rushing into things.
Everyone's life will turn around at some point and mine started as soon as I got a job in a private company. The situations turned around so quickly that I didn't have much in my hand to dealt with and I had gone with the flow. The sickness of my father and death are the tragic moments of my life and this lead to leave my newly found job and made me return to my home.
After many days of hospital struggle my father leave his breath. First two days are the worst for me, don't know what to do. Up untill then I didn't have any responsibilities and I just lived my moments in life. After two days, if I keep on crying what about my mother, then it hit me to suck it up and act like a man. Then I realise the responsibility and started to taking care of my family.
If I had feared the change occurred and didn't do anything about it, then we would have depended on our relatives to get something and it would be not good to see. At that time in my life I only felt the change will happen no matter what you prayed for it to not happen. Talk to yourself that you need to be stepup for your family. It will give you the strength you need in that sad situations.
To talk about a happy moment after this sad situation is my marriage, it brought happy tears to my mother eyes as something is happy about to be happening. After that as soon as my marriage is over I got a call that I was appointed for the job on compassionate grounds. At first I thought the situations are getting better. Everyone will think that the marriage and job is a good situation.
Then it began, if you get a job in uniform services then it will not be a pleasant job and your mind will always be in stress to furnish the information to the higher authorities. Up untill one and half year, I struggled for the understanding of work, then our superior officers had been transferred and I got the one who is willing to share his knowledge and wisdom to direct me in the right side of work. I was happy again. Thanks to him.
You see my point here with the above explained two situations, change may occur for the worst or better it is your choice how to deal with it. Just don't sit when tide is against you, swim like usual and you may be there itself but you would not be keeping ideal to yourself.