Our duty as fellow Muslims is to remind each other, direct each other, and invite one another to kindness. And if your current position as someone reminded by others, then be grateful wisely, because it means there are still many who care for you to be better.
Don't feel bad when someone tells you your shortcomings, because he who rebukes you is the one who loves you, so stay prejudiced and be patient.
In essence, always think positively when someone else takes the time to remind you of your lack. Therefore, the excitement of other people should be made to be a correction material for yourself to be better, not even become an ingredient of grumbling in your heart.
Take control of your heart by continuing to prejudice well, even if you think the warning that comes from others is sometimes painful. Look at the goal as positively as possible, so that you don't complain and swear at it.
The most important thing is to convince your heart by saying "he loves me, because that's why he always corrects me through his criticism". Because with you thinking that way, then naturally prejudice and being alone will not be difficult for you to do.
Calm your heart that was not good with gratitude, because the name of the heart when reprimanded quickly felt down. However, by continuing to calm your heart with deep gratitude, of course to be positive thinking will be easy.
And what you have to remember wisely is not to be angry, hold on to your ego for a while so that not only do your ears listen, but your heart.
Because, as sick as any other person's rebuke, if your heart is listening then of course you will think that all of that is for your good.