Funny thing, whether you can accept it or not, what we perceive we create. Which leads us to what we perceive next.. which leads us to the next moment of creation.. this recurring loop creates our perspective and our perspective creates the circumstances, events and situations as we experience them.
At the same time the free will we have to choose to see these circumstances, events and situations through any of the infinite number of perspectives there exists, places us in the exact circumstance, event or situation that we find ourselves in, in this conscious, creative cosmos that we all form an integral part of. Like a collection of cells is known as a body.. WELCOME TO OUR OWN COMBINED CREATION!!!
The sooner we can accept our absolute part in creating the world as we perceive it to be, the sooner we might all stop creating pain and suffering and lack and fear for ourselves and one another... The longer we blame and project the more destructive and distracting the game.. the more intense the hurt and the shame... That's all part of "the I", the ego game (the self created in our minds and as experienced by our senses.)
Acceptance (ultimate response-ability) will lead to absolute power and freedom of being. We are all part of it all. Be the part that you wish to be a part of. Create what you wish to perceive. We all creating it all for all of us.