The issue with classical utilitarianism is the principle that everyone is worth just one, interchangeable unit in the moral calculus. This view shatters on the realization of what Adam Smith called the "vicarious affects." Morality demands that a mother, for example, give greater weight to her child's interests than the interests of strangers (even a bunch of strangers).
RE: DO THE NEEDS OF THE MANY OUTWEIGH THE NEEDS OF THE FEW?