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Ever expected a bread and gotten a stone?

• When you get the bread you will understand it value

Ever expected an upvote and you got nothing, worst still a downvote?

• Circumstances comes in sizes. You gotta deal with it.

Ever expect a light and all you got still was the gloom, cloud and darkness?

• You have no problem that is not common to man.

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Expectations and mind paintings are sometimes very tricky. You built the perfect result in your mind yet you get quite the opposite. Even when you seem to have planned it all right through the epicenter there is a big dent. The plans crushing right from where you thought it will stand most. Well its not just you it happens to all.

How do you deal with expectation gone opposite

Move on

Just that, there is no other thing than that, just move on.

Learn to divide your weight

Stop overleaning on your methods, be open to new methods and ways. Stop cracking down when something you are hundred percent sure will work doesn't. Learn to have multiplans, diversify. You will enjoy it

Find a master plan and stick to it

You need a specific purpose and a master craft to lead you through it. When ever any of your plans fail, you can always look up to your master craft and check the master plan again. I am a christian and i can tell of of a great master plan and master craft that never fails -
JESUS. I bet he can help you out with what you are meant to do. Read the bible which is the great MASTERPLAN, allow the HOLY SPIRIT to guide you into God breath word for you per moment. You will soon get it right.

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PRAY.

Prayer helps you to understand what you want better. Many attimes its better if we say something rather than think of them - it becomes clearer talking about them. And yes you are submitting a request to a God who can answer. Prayer helps you to define what is on your mind and cool off the heat you got from plan failure.
peace