Trying to control everything in your environment is a 'normal' behaviour. Generally, people don’t want to get out of their comfort zone and it’s totally understandable !
Why ? Because there are a lot of pros to do that:
- you control your environment
- you don’t take any risk and feel ok with that
- other people won’t judge you because you act like them
- you are NORMAL !
But guess what ...
As Gary Vaynerchuk says often: YOU WILL DIE SOON !
And speaking about that, what is the top regret in the top 5 regrets of the dying ?
- I wish I'd had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.
- I wish I hadn't worked so hard.
- I wish I'd had the courage to express my feelings.
- I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends.
- I wish that I had let myself be happier.
People realise too late that they missed a lot of opportunities to change their life for the one they dreamt for.
Sometimes you have to let things go to discover new experiences, new people …
It’s OK to be afraid !
It’s OK to think that you won’t make it because people told you so, because you don’t feel good about leaving you comfort zone, about taking risks !
But it’s not OK to get stuck in that condition !
It’s not OK to try something new, something you’ve always dreamt about.
This is only that way you will finally know what you are good for, and what you’re meant to be in your life !
'Frozen' sums up very clearly ! 😉
It's funny how some distance
Makes everything seem small
And the fears that once controlled me
Can't get to me at all
So ... 🎶 LET IT GO ! LET IT GO ! 🎶
Don't hesitate to give me your feedbacks in comments ! Did you try something totally new recently ?
Have a look on my previous TIABY! articles:
There Is A Better You ! #1 : Stay Positive !
There Is A Better You ! #2 : 7 Habits Of Highly Effective People
There Is A Better You ! #3: Stop Watching TV !
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