Dear Steemian
During life, people will always learn. As time passes and age, life lessons gained will be even more valuable. But unfortunately not everyone is able to adapt to the life lessons they face. For that, try to read this one and start picking the meaning of each life lesson you learned.
Make a Decision
Various options will always exist in life. Buying a new bag or shoes, going to the mall or amusement park, even choosing a life partner needed a decision. And how to make good and wise decisions? Actually quite easy way, consider all the risks and pros and cons of each choice. Listen to your conscience when deciding to make a decision.
Dare to dream big
Artist Agnes Monica said, dream, believe and make it happen. Even politicians like Aburizal Bakrie and leaders of the nation like Soekarno say to dream as high as possible. So, never fear and hesitate to put your dreams in the highest place. You do not have to worry about falling if strong intention and maximum effort you have prepared before.
Facing the toughest enemy
During life, we must meet people with the nature and character that is the opposite of ourselves. We can know which opponents and friends, whom we can trust, who is the selfish, the bully, etc. But you need to worry when confronted with them. Differences make the world more colorful. Most importantly you do not have to be like them. Just be yourself and face your toughest enemy!
Accepting criticism with open hearts
Not everyone likes to be criticized, but most people would rather criticize. Two things that we can never avoid. Instead of you being dizzy with criticisms directed at you, it's better to filter every criticism and accept it open-hearted, and make that criticism a whip for you to move forward.
Sincere release
The lesson about releasing something is arguably the most difficult life lesson. For example, you can hardly let go of your lover or friendship, but if you keep it it just makes you or the people around you unhappy. So learn to gradually let go of something that must be removed. This is true only a series of processes that must occur in life.
Argue healthy
Debates can always happen, be it with family, friends, or maybe your boyfriend. Keep in mind, you should avoid a debate that would hurt yourself. Never argue by using "muscle" let alone high notes. Also avoid words that will make you regret later.
Accepting praise
When you are praised for your new and exciting work clothes or the latest model shoes that are perfect when you wear, do not necessarily interpret the compliment as negative. Say thank you for the compliment because you deserve to receive it and cherish yourself.