DATING, COURTSHIP, MARRIAGE, AND PARENTING (Episode 1)
Good day fellow steemians... I've decided to start a session on these very important areas of our lives; DATING, COURTSHIP, MARRIAGE, AND PARENTING.
I would advise that we all follow this closely, as i trust that this article is going to greatly inform us and reveal some truths to us and change our mindset concerning dating, courtship, marriage, and parenting.
Relax and enjoy this journey with me
DATING, COURTSHIP, MARRIAGE 💍
We live in complex times, those who are married desperately want to be single, and those who are single desperately want to be married. Its a strange scenario... I would love to illustrate it this way, you have a house and people are running out of tge house wit sad and angry faces, and you have others running into the house excited.
Marriage is of God, its an amazing institution when wisdom sits in that institution, and it can be a burden. I know people whose lives were awesome until they got married. A lot of guys and ladies were okay until they got married.
You have to think about the responsibility and the weight of the commitment that you make.
THE EASIEST THING TO MAKE HAPPEN IN YOUR LIFE IS A WEDDING.
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The wedding is inferior to marriage. And you can have a fantastic wedding (everybody has a fantastic wedding).
ANY FOOL CAN GET MARRIED
When young people are trying to get married, they prepare for the wedding as if the wedding is the marriage.
MARRIAGE IS A LIFETIME. WEDDING HAPPENS JUST ONE DAY!!!
When the inner strength 💪 to be part of another human life is not there, you will want to be strong in the marriage, you will make promises to yourself, you will break as many as you make.
There is no such thing as a wrong wife or husband, there's only marriage. Once you marry somebody, that's your husband or wife. You can't go back 🔙 to begin to question ❔ whether you married 💒 the right person or not.
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WHAT MOTIVATES MOST YOUNG PEOPLE TO GET MARRIED
√ Sex
√ Societal pressure
√ Peer pressure
Let me say this... Dating 💏 is not Courtship. Courtship is not Marriage.
#DATING
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One of the big questions from young people is "when should I begin to date?"
DATING IS A FOCUSED FRIENDSHIP!!!
Dating is friendship👬 with a goal🏀 to access the possibility of courtship. There is no commitment in dating. It is usually in a very short period.
You don't date somebody for two years and above (that's silly). You date somebody maximum three(3) months, usually two (2) weeks, one(1) month.
If a guy hangs around you as a lady one(1) month and above, you have to ask him to define the relationship.
If you don't put him in perspective, he's going to send a wrong signal👌 to those who should propose to you.
Dating does not happen in your lives; you don't keep someone in your life and say "we are dating".
DATING IS GOING OUT ON A DATE.
Don't say no to anybody that wants to date you. Once they pass✔ your qualification test, packaging especially, then its okay.
Go on dates in a safe place, not in the guy's house (that's a visit).
Go to a restaurant, a place where the both of you can sit💺 and talk.
He should be talking💬 about his dreams, why he likes💗 you, why he's taking you out on a date... By this you are accessing if he's a guy you can stay with.
As a lady 👒, when you are on a date, and you're talking about yourself probably your history 📜, don't reveal too much (don't go ahead and say things like, "I've had abortions before...)
In case you are now born again, and your history has some contradictions, DON'T BE SORRY FOR YOUR HISTORY 📜.
There is a type of person that is designed for that history. If you meet anyone that wants to make you feel grateful for dating them, that is the proof that they are not fit for the strength of glory ahead of your history.
Whoever God sends to you or designed for you, will not receive your past as a burden, he/she will receive your past as an inspiration.
NEVER BE SORRY FOR WHERE YOU HAVE BEEN
There is no such thing as a particular time to start dating. The time to start dating is when you are ready for it.
THE GOAL OF DATING IS TO FIND OUT IF YOU CAN MOVE INTO A MORE SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP OF COURTSHIP.
I would have to drop my pen here for now... The session will continue with episode two(2).
Thank you all for your time in reading this... I trust we were able to learn a thing or two from this article.
You are free to drop your comment, questions or contributions.
Do not miss episode 2, it promises to be more informative and interesting!!!
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