Never seek for counsel on how to do something from someone that has never done it before.
If you what to fail to drive a posh car ask a bicycle rider but the prices of fuel they will tell you the by a bicycle because it doesn't consume fuel at all.
Seek advice from the right people. Look for someone better than you and ask them on what to do.
Those people will alway make up focus to something higher than what you doing now.
You always have to find new friends that are richer than you at the moment.
Like it or not the person who's advice you take mst is that person you spend your time with. Therefore be careful when choosing friends because you are going to become like them.