The phrase
- "take care of yourself"
- "take care of your life first"
- "take care of your sins alone"
- "you yourself are not right"
- "do not nosy and kepo with other people's business", and words like semisalnya usually be a very weapon telling the other person to silence and not continue the conversation.
Usually the things that are discussed related to the answer are advice relating to the behavior, worship, faith or other personal affairs. So someone feels if someone else has interfered in his business.
Do we know if this turns out to be one sentence that is hated by God? This attitude includes a form of pride and hurt the feelings of the person who invites himself to do good.
From Abdullah ibn Mas'ud, Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) said:
"The most Allah-hate sentence, someone advises his friend, 'Might be Allah,' but he replied: 'Take care of yourself' (Baihaqi in Syu'abul Iman, 1/359, an-Nasai in Amal al-Yaum wa al-Lailah, 849, and al-Albani al-al-sahani in as-Sahihah, 2598).
Let's be friends, from now on keep our tongue. Even when we are advised, if we have not received the advice given by others, it should be silent. Do not use words like above.
Because it makes Allah SWT angry for what we say.
