Getting married can bring you much happiness or much sadness.

And probably everything you have been taught about women is wrong.
They think completely opposite of men.

Men pretend to be pragmatic about relationships, but are really the romantics. And women pretend to be the romantic ones, when they are really the pragmatics.

In america there is no legal reason for a man to get married. A man gets nothing out of the marriage contract, he only gets burdens and obligations.
I do not know how things are in the country you are at.