The one question that no one seems to be able to answer is- 'What do you REALLY want?'. That question, when asked of almost anyone, moves them away from themselves. They start to talk about what their parents wanted for them, the potential their teachers could see in them, the talents their peers can see- anything but what they really want. It is a hard question. It takes effort to quiet down the other voices from the mind. But, if you spend that effort, and you do it long and hard enough you will start to hear a still small voice. That voice is yours. Let it get louder till you hear it scream- I WANT xxxxxxx! Then, start to move toward that goal. It doesn't take much, an hour a day maybe. Step by step you will start to move in the direction of your real want, your real desires. It could take years. But, a moment will arrive when you are experiencing exactly what you asked for. Then, reassess. Let the voice that is yours speak again. Then begin to move toward it, this time with assurance. This is what you are here to do. Now, just do it....