I have dated both men and women and there are certain qualities that mean a lot to me. How about you?
The person has to be fun and have a good sense of humor. They also need to be compassionate and caring too.....
What I don't like is if they want to be bossy or not listen to their partner.
The reason I wanted to write about this is because I saw this steemit post today.....
https://steemit.com/women/@cperez1970/wtf-why-do-women-like-to-argue-so-much
It is a post where 
"We do listen, but if its not a big deal let it go. It's not worth arguing about."
It takes two people to argue and arguing is part of all relationships. But it is always the woman who is accused of keeping an argument going. That's not fair.
One of the most important qualities I like in a man or woman .....BEFORE...... I date them is they must be someone who listens and takes someone's feelings into consideration. Of course most people think they are right most of the time but sometimes women just want our view of a situation to be understood too.
Sometimes I find men get their ego's hurt too easily and they start yelling and screaming at us. I find women are easier to deal with.... But I'm open to both men and women as possible people to date... it's all about the person.
I know the picture shows a threesome couple. I've never done that yet. I thought it should say that lol just to be clear...... just in case. ha ha