Hello Steemians, how are you?
In this post I will write about an experience that I have lived along my journey and I have been able to perceive and training many people so that they always keep the focus but showing that they can not only dream, they must understand that there are steps to be followed and for more which seems unusual to believe, a large majority of them get lost with it.
Most of us have dreams that are goals to achieve on our journey.
If this post does not make much sense to you I suggest you read many of my posts because I wrote them all with the intention of interconnecting the points to each post you read. There have been a few exceptions but the vast majority of them will make you many thoughts that can help you find answers that are already inside your minds and hearts.
To coach a person you need to listen to everything about them, their goals, their desires, to understand their finances, how they organize time during the days among many things that we need to know from who asked me to try along with it to unravel what hinders growth from them.
Of course, there is not only one factor that hinders our growth, there are many factors.
But in this post I would like to write about FOCUS.
The Focus can be divided into several parts but I would like to focus on just one at that time.
In trying to achieve their goals people forget that there are pieces to be put step by step so that they get what they want.
As you already know and I have written many times about it here: "Everything that comes easy goes easy"
I will use an analogy to make it very simple for you to understand what I mean:
Imagine you are on the edge of a cliff and on the other side you can see a beautiful mountain.
This mountain would be the place where all your goals and dreams are.
Most of the people I mentioned at the beginning of the post are looking at the mountain for days, months and even years of their lives. What does that mean? They just dream and are trying to jump to reach the other side, but that is impossible and you will not reach the mountain that way.
But people's dreams are often the biggest villain of themselves because the dream is also capable of immobilizing people.
Every time I was with one of these people I directed them to focus to reach the mountain.
I always told these people the following:
1 - Do you see the mountain?
Yes
2 - Do you realize that you spend a lot of time just looking at the mountain?
Yes
3 - What do you do every day to reach there?
I do not know….
4 - There is a great distance up there and if you just look at the mountain will not reach the other side.
I say clearly that their problem is in the focus of daily tasks that they have to do to reach there.
I say: For you to reach another side there is only one way.
You need to build the bridge and this bridge is made of wood and ropes.
Every day from now you will have to put a piece of wood and fit it into the rope and you will do this every day and without looking back.
When I say this to people and it seems that something magical happens even if the concept is simple if the person really wants to reach the mountain they will do it and for sure they will achieve their goal.
Finishing...
Adjust that part of your focus.
"FIRST BUILD THE BRIDGE PIECE BY PIECE, AFTER THAT YOU CAN REACH THE MOUNTAIN"
Believe me, there is no shortcut to many things in life.
It may be difficult but it is always amazing the taste of victory!
A big hug
