It is said that experience teaches you about Life. When we grow up, especially if you had a wonderful childhood, we see people as perfect, like super heroes. When they love us, they can do no wrong to us. We feel they will protect us no matter what; we believe that they have got our backs no matter the weather.
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Well, we reach adult life and find out that it is not so. People are humans and they are prone to disappoint you. This is the reason a lot of people are hurt and face heart break.
I was talking to a friend the other day and he said that there is no real love out in the world at the moment. I told him that I do not agree with him and that it is because of the experiences that he had that is why he felt that way.
It is always good to have an optimistic ideology. Always believe that some thing good will come out of situations no matter the outcome.
Brace your self for disappointments so it does not hurt as much as it would when you are not prepared. Put it at the back of your mind that no one is perfect, even you.
Have a back up plan for situations so you do not get stranded.
Relax, what is meant to be will be. Do not stress yourself.
I thank God for the circumstances I have faced. If I did not live through that, I will not be who I am today.
ALWAYS BELIEVE IN YOURSELF, SURROUND YOURSELF WITH LOVE, STAY AWAY FROM NEGATIVE ENERGY.
BE THE BEST VERSION OF YOU.