Hey Guys do you mind if I take just few minutes out of your time?... I have a gist for you. And I'm not gonna take your time all...
So if you're a lady in here just walk out majestically 🤭... But try to drop this piece for every single guy you have around before you excuse us 😉.
So dude, get seated like the correct Borbor that you are and let's talk.
.... I don't know if you have actually read about one cute king like that called Lemuel.
I was doing my personal study on the saying of that cute king's mum to him in proverbs 31... And something caught my attention, I don't know if you have actually paid attention to that part too ever since you have been reading that passage.
The very part that says "Who can find a virtuous woman? " (proverbs 31:10a)
Have you?
😁 uncle! uncle!!
Shey you see that I got you there, for the countless times that you have been reading that bible passage, you have never for once take notes of that very first question asked by that woman. All you do is, take your time to read and digest all those characteristics of a virtuous woman that Lemuel's mum mentioned, and after reading, you'll come out to start comparing and condemning our ladies like you're one saint too 🌝
Now somebody is beginning to get uncomfortable and he's planning to go.... No oooo, you ain't going anywhere!
My nigga, chill, the gist just started.
That woman asked you a question before even telling you about the characteristics you should look out for in a lady before you consider her as a wife.
"Who can find a virtuous woman?" in other words, she's saying "what kind of a man can find a virtuous woman?"
You know she could have just said... "A banker can find a virtuous woman"... "A pastor can find a virtuous woman"... "A rich dude can find a virtuous woman"... "A choir coordinator can find a virtuous woman"
She could have said "All men can find a virtuous woman"
But NO!
she asked! "Who can find a virtuous woman?"..... That question alone should bring you to the knowledge of the fact that, finding a virtuous woman can never be done by a non virtuous man!...
Do you know?
That the proverbs 31 woman's husband has three distinct characteristics that 90% of you guys never had!
And you have never taken note of those characteristics ever since you have been doing your own study.
Now somebody is trying to look out for a Bible for verification 😏. "Iwoyi laaro yin" (Google Search yourself for translation 🤪)
As I was saying jare 🤭
📌Do you know that, the proverbs 31 woman's husband is not an EGOCENTRIC dude like most of you?
Prov 31:11a "The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her..."
Oh, you think that dude trusted that prov 31 babe just because she was virtuous alone? No way!
It takes a man who's not full of himself, a man who's not driven by his achievements to safely trust his heart (I.E his all) into the hands of his woman without saying "obinrin lasan lasan!"
Uncle 🌝
Kindly search yourself from within, can you truly do that? Can the ego and pride you derive from being a man allow you do that?.... Yet when you're part of those looking out for virtuousness in your woman 🤔.... Kontinu, you hear 🙄
📌 Do you also know that, the proverbs 31 nigga is a fellow who is always giving to learning?
Or you think in verse 23 "He's known in the gates, when he sitteth among the elders of the land" just for sitting sake?
Uncle, that dude is wise enough to know that when you're always found among the elders and those who are more experienced than you, you're bound to learn and gather counsel either consciously or unconsciously.
Oh!
Wait 🙋♀, you think he doesn't have folks like him whom he can always hang out with to discuss ladies from morning till night?
... You think he doesn't have friends who are of his age and level who they can always visit the viewing centre to watch football match every now and then?
Or maybe you're thinking he doesn't have colleagues whom he can always hang out with on every Friday night to have some drinks and peppersoup
But NO!
"he's known in the gates..."
Take note of that word known! I.E he doesn't just visit those elders once in a while, he does the visit often and often, consistently. And that's why he's already known at the gate.
now if I may ask you bro 🌝
When Last did you visit the elders (reasonable mentor) for counsel?
Do you even have any? Not to talk of visiting them for counsel.
How many of you have a male mentor who's experienced and willing to teach you what it takes to be a man?
How many of you guys can bring down your ego just to have a female mentor just because you want to learn how to handle and treat a woman?
And yet, you all go about saying nasty things about ladies without even knowing 1% of what it takes to be a woman!
All you know how to do best is to always shout... "All ladies are the same" like you have tasted them all abi?
Kontinu.. God is watching you jejely on a 3D camera.
📌Do you even know that, that prov 31 guy is not a guy who condemns and discriminate like most of you do?
..."Her children arise up and call her blessed, Her husband also and he praiseth her"....
Now somebody is saying
Ehn! Why won't he praise her, why won't he call her blessed when the woman is worth it in the first place with no flaws.
Please press pause 🙋♀
Get this straight here,
You think the prov 31 woman doesn't have her weaknesses too? My dear she has!
I'm not just permitted to point them out to you. If you want to know her weaknesses , go back to proverbs 31 and do your thorough study on the passage again 🤷🏻♀
And yet, amidst her weaknesses, this guy never for once condemn her, rather he praiseth her, he rise up and call her blessed.
How many of you can do that this days?
When you mistakenly come across a lady whom her weakness is so visible, you tag her and turn her into your national anthem in the association of Nigerian guys forum.
Kontinu 🌝
when she mistakenly exhibit an act of weakness, you forget about her several acts of virtuousness and you arise to call her cursed among the women folks, you condemn her brutally like you're an all round virtuous guy yourself.
Please when and where were you assigned the post of chief executive condemnator 🤷🏻♀
where and where did God tell you that it is your own duty to condemn women folks as a man 🤷🏻♀
You'll go about saying all ladies are the same, and yet, you still want to settle down with us with the hope and assurance that we'll be a carrier of your name and children... Now I'm confused on your behalf because it appears you yourself don't even understand what you're saying 🤷🏻♀
if we're all practically the same, why do you still want to settle down with us 🌝🌝🌝
Look here dude
We're busy striving to become that virtuous woman every day because our ears are filled up already because of your daily condemnation on the women folks. And trust me, we will never settle for a less virtuous man either!!!!
Well,
By now you should be able to answer it within yourself if you're the one Lemuel's mum is asking the question
" Who can find a virtuous woman? "
Let me leave it Here!!!
🚶🏻♀🚶🏻♀🚶🏻♀🚶🏻♀🚶🏻♀🚶🏻♀🚶🏻♀🚶🏻♀