Life is full of ups and downs, downs and ups and in betweens. People are majorly to blame for this with their reactions. People see what they wanna see for what it is.. for example, Have you ever been seated in a restaraunt waiting for your meal with someone and they wave the waitress over just to tell her "this is shitty service" from a outsider looking in view that person seems rude. From your view that was embarrassing, and the waitress reacted quickly for such a shitty job.. From that person that person who was stating their view they are stating their opinion, thinking it will help the waitress work better.. but in that waitresses opinion she just wants to make money, go home, and enjoy her life, and this customer has not only wrecked that for her with a few words but made the waitress believe she either isnt doing her job right or sucks at her job. Making life harder for that woman. Your words influence people.. every kind word spoken has a kind reaction, and ever demeaning word spoken brings someone down. Make the choice today to use your words wisely and affect people in a positive way :) say goodbye to negativity and your life will improve as well as the lives of others.. have a good day and remember. Life is what you make it