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Unfortunately, each personality must have a negative side that might be an introspection for each person. The following is what makes the melancholy type actually experience things that are considered "bad" in terms of psychology:
Depressed
Melancholy people tend to be easily depressed, this happens because they have to set high standards and tend to do things perfectly. Unfortunately many people may work or do things casually and show the same results. For people with melancholy, this kind of thing creates great pressure.
Spend time
Melancholy people are very unsuitable for work in the field. Where they take is a person who is very profound in deciding various things, his mind is filled with risks and bad things that cause the melancholy personality to spend too much time in his activities. They cannot move fast and dynamically, and instead are depressed in these circumstances. According to people with melancholy type, in a hurry make them not feel satisfied and depressed.
Difficult to socialize
Difficult experience of socializing is very common in people who have a melancholy personality. other people tend to be tired or just avoid meeting them, this happens because of their distrust of others and tend to underestimate others who will not reach their standards. Melancholy people also have an offense that makes many people have to be extra careful when socializing with them.
Pessimistic and Suspicious
Great suspicion and pessimism takes time and some positive features of the melancholy type. They tend to think that other people don't understand them, think about the risks to work and the bad things that await their lives. That way, melancholy people often feel stressed and scared and do things that are not supposed to be done. Unfortunately this kind of thing is rather difficult to change by the melancholy type because it has become his character.
Not easy to be pleased
The last reason is the answer where melancholy people often do not have friends. For them praising is veiled and suspicious, while entertaining is like spending time on useless things. It's hard to entertain and please the hearts of melancholy people because they tend to be difficult to understand. It's good if you meet this person then let him cool with things that they think are good, and if you are a melancholy type. Try to open your eyes a little, that pleasure doesn't come from the world or what you create.
Don't want to be blamed
Lastly the most visible feature of melancholy is that there is no wrong word for them. Melancholy people tend to have ideas before speaking, and they will say that they are wrong if everything is proven and there are valid things to deny the fact that what they think or say they tend to be wrong.