It is taught by many spiritual gurus that everything has a masculine and feminine side.
Masculine energy is straight forward, powerful and direct: it plows through difficulty.
It could be symbolized by a straight line.
Feminine energy is curvy, accepting, beautiful and loving: It transmutes negativity into love.
It could be symbolized via waves.
Every living being on this planet embodies both a masculine and feminine energy.
These two energies can intertwine: thus becoming one energy.
Yet they both have their own characteristics.
When we accept the inner Goddess within us - when we fully embody the divine feminine energy, we become more forgiving and can therefore - through our forgiveness - transmute and transform the negativity associated with lifes difficulties through acceptance.
When we begin to forgive that which has caused us harm, we allow ourselves to have more space.
We now have freedom of movement for we are no longer confined to the box of a difficult situation.
When we transmute the negativity associated with a difficult situation, we are actually removing the difficulty of the situation.
This is because our minds tend to believe situations or circumstances to be harder or scarier than they actually are in reality.
Our minds have been programmed by society to hold onto and manifest fear.
When we transmute fear into love via the avenue of forgiveness, we are transcending the limitation of our ego-mind and becoming fully present.
When we are fully present, we allow things to happen in the now without bringing things from our past into our now nor worrying about future circumstances.
Because we are fully present, we realize that this moment is all that we can influence and change and thus release unnecessary negativity.
We can now move forward and tackle the "problem" head on.
Because we are not wasting our energy by focusing on all the negative things that COULD happen, based on our minds analysis of past events which manifests these events into our future, we are able to focus all of our energy on the actual problem at hand.
Because of this, we realize that the problem was not as all encompassing as we previously thought; and we can now focus on the positives.
My advice to anybody going through a difficult situation is to just BE.
It is far easier to move through difficult situations if you only focus on the now.
Thank you for your attention :)