The specialty of gold is that it can be molded and given any shape according to our requirement.Malleablity and ductility is the natural property of gold. It can be given any desired shape. Similarly if any person who can mould his attitude,behavior according to the demand and necessity of the situation and circumstances then he can keep himself safe from many negative situations,conflicts,unnecessary entanglement in life and maintain his highest position and glitters like gold.
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People can not mold themselves because they remain stuck to their ideaology,their ego,attitude and their own thought process and expect everything to happen according to their wish.And if something do not happen according to their interest or someone do not behave according to their will they fill disrespect and discomfort,their ego hurt and then do not hesitate to protest unduely.But it is not necessary that everything should happen or everyone should behave according our interest .Everyone is independent and living his life according to his aim object . His action and words are regulated according to his mentality. Everyone is unique in this word drama and no one is similar to other.The way we think can not match with others.Mode of thinking and attitude differs from person to person. We can not control others because all are free to live.The best thing we can do that we can control ourselves as we know better about our weakness and strengths.In our life time we may encounter various kinds of people,situations,circumstances .We can not control everything, something may be controlled and something is beyond our reach.In this case it is worthy to adjust and mold ourselves to adapt to the adversity of life. Because we know better about the functioning of our mind, intellect and resolves and not about others. We know the aim and direction of our life.
We should understand the hard truth and philosophy of life that this world drama is a mixture of divercity.Different people ,situation,circumstances come to teach us, to test us or to experience us the sweetness and the bitterness of life. We can not avoid this nor we can escape from this rather more we face them more we will be the master of our life. More we will be authoritative. Experience makes a person expert.
When we possess this understanding it gives us the strength and ability to mold ourselves and more we are able to mold our behavior more we will be successful in keeping ourselves free from unnecessary thoughts, words and actions in life. We can design our life in a highest manner as we have closed the doors for every waste in our life.
But it is a common human tendency that we expect from others first and this is the biggest mistake.We want others to change first,we want others to respect first, we want others to serve first and so on. But it is a universal law of God’s creation that what we give we get it back in multiplied. What we bow so we ripe. Great scientist Newtons third law says every action has equal and opposite reaction.Before expecting from others we need to think first what we have given.All our achievemnt and success relates to our actions before.So instead of expectibng from others it is wise to develop the attitude of giving first.Expecting from others is like begging. If we want to be great and lead a prosperous life then we have to be a example in front of others. if we expect to change others first then no one will like rather conflict may arise. But we can change our attitude to adapt ourselves with the demand of the situation,circumstances,society,and people. Instead of becoming a go getter it is necessary to develop the attitude of a go giver. This is the symbol of a real gold soul.All the great souls,great saints have always molded themselves to disallow unnecessary hurdles,impediments in the path towards their glory and maintained their highest position.The happiness of giving makes us more happy and contented than receiving.Our submissive and egolessness makes us more popular and respected in front of others.
Following are few things we must not omit in our life to live a highest life-----------
Do not see,discuss,or think about others weaknesses- when we see others weaknesses and discuss it in fron of others we unknowingly engage ourselves in negative thinking and spread negative energy all around us .this more distub us than others and closed the door to change.
Develop the attitude of compassionateness- when we became compassionate towards others mistakes and excuse , it gives others opportunity to change themselves. This habit minimize our waste thoughts and allow us to mold our behavior instantly.
Spread the vibration of our good wishes for everyone- when we keep good wishes for everyone it do not give us the opportunity to see others weakness and hinders us from indulging in conflict.And we indirectly accumulate blessing from others.
Pray for our well wishers and excuse our opponents, haters - Directly or indirectly our well wishers have a lot of contribution towards our life,their support and blessing pushes us ahead in our life. So we should remain thankful and pray for their betterment in life. Also we should be very big to excuse our opponents and haters .Because indirectly they are pointing to our all those weaknesses which we are unable to identify.This helps us to rectify and change our life for the highest purpose.