There is a trap in which it is very easy to get in, and if you get caught in it, you will lose many good opportunities in life.
The trap is that you look at successful people and you suppose they were lucky. You can think that they get great ideas right away and never have problems in achieving their goals.
Your impression can boost the continuous media presentation of successful people who lead perfectly perfect lives. But if you are thinking this way, you are wrong.
Successful people are facing problems, like you.
The simple truth is that most successful people did not succeed because they did not have problems, but because they did not allow them to stop them. They are persistent when facing problems.
The next time you're trying to make something exciting, do not give up when something is wrong. Expect that problems arise. The more challenges you have in your dreams and what your ambition is greater, the more likely you will be to encounter problems in their accomplishment. If you know that something will go wrong, it's less likely that you will give up when difficulties arise.
Observe the fact that you are dealing with difficulties as a sign of progress. Problems will only arise because you made some progress. When this happens, do not fret, instead, smile in yourself and think - "Oh, I really succeed because I'm facing these key problems." Resolve them one by one and you will achieve what you want.
The good news is that there are only a few problems that are really impossible to overcome. Usually there is a solution for every situation or the possibility of it being circumvented. It will take a bit of thought and effort to find it, but you will feel great when you finally find it. After all, if what you want to do is be easy, it would not be any achievement. Persistence in overcoming the problem is what makes achievements so valuable.
Facing problems
There are many ways to solve problems and every problematic situation has its own solution. However, there are several simple principles for solving them.
Think before you start to work:
Some problems can be avoided if you simply think about it before doing something. When you want to do something with a lot of challenges, consider the most probable problem that can arise. If you do this, you will discover that many problems can be avoided at the outset.Avoid creating your own problems:
We challenge some of our problems ourselves. Ask yourself: Do you really do what is necessary? It's easy to fool yourself when you just do not make the necessary effort. Do you use the help of the right people to help you? If you need help, look for it! If you work with other people, do they really understand what you want to achieve? Only you know what is happening in your head unless you take the time to clearly explain it to others. Are you paranoid and too much to re-examine what you are trying to do and invent problems that do not actually exist? It's very easy to invent problems that do not actually exist!Focus on the problems that you need to solve:
Even if you really succeed in applying the principles we have outlined, problems will arise. When this happens, make sure to pinpoint exactly what the problem is before you begin to try to solve it. Think about it, break big problems into smaller ones and solve them gradually step by step.
Exercise requires exercise
Success does not consist in avoiding problems - it consists in persistence and overcoming difficulties. If you really want to learn from the most successful people, and not dreaming about their success, try to find out about their problems they've faced on their way and how they've overcome them. You will learn much more than reading about their successes and how their lives are perfect.
Exercise requires exercise. All of us discourage problems from time to time. But with more problems, you will overcome them more. The more problems you solve, you will become even better in their quick resolution, and, as importantly, you will be less worried when new ones appear.