On Sunday God-willing my mother will be going to the Baptism of my cousin's baby and it will indeed be a celebration because my Aunt (the one that is not sick) will prepare two pigs as the food for the guests that will come.
My mother was actually had been invited by my sister-in-law to join her because she was taken as one of the godmothers of my nephew. So my eldest brother will use his car for the purpose and they will go together with his two kids.
It will be the opportunity for my mother to visit my ailing Aunt because she doesn't have much time as the doctors had told her family. It was already a stage-4 cancer and with that stage almost no one ever survives. At least my Aunt can still eat but she is complaining pain on her Lumbar area so I do not know if she was given medicines for it.
It will be a mixed feeling for my mother, she will be able to meet her relatives again which I know that will make her so happy. So I will just give her some money that she can use whilst she is there but they will go home the same day too on Sunday.
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Unfortunately I could not come with them because of my current condition and I could not force myself to go because it is just impossible as I have pain issues already. That is just part of my frustrations in my life, not being able to spend time with my relatives that much in the mother's side of the family because of financial constraints.
That is why upon learning the severity of my Kidney problem I had made myself spend some four long months vacation to my grandmother in the father side of the family because I thought I will die soon. Well I didn't die but now I do not want to see any of them face to face again or somebody for that matter because of my pitiful facial and backbone deformity.
I guess that all things must come to an end and all we have to do is just enjoy life and love one another and make most out of this lifetimes which is a precious gift that will give us a chance to be with God if we happen to live with his commandments in our hearts.