By any chance a person pulls a gun on you and shoots you, it's totally unprofitable to stand there and shouts at the person. It's best you turn your attention to the fact that you've been shot and seek a solution to it.
Life we know is so special, but also very wretched. We get inspired when we appreciates the special aspect of it, it gives us encouragement, cheers us up, it gives us the energy and present to us the bigger perspective. Understanding how painful life can be at times softens us up. Understanding what pain is, is one special ingredient of being there for another person. That moment you feel a whole lot of grief, at that point you can look into someone's eyes just because you feel you haven't got anything to lose.
You see yourself just hanging there. Because the wretchedness submits us and softens us. But the truth is, if we were only wretched, it's possible that we would all just go down the tubes. Feeling so depressed, getting all discouraged and so hopeless that there will be no energy left inside us to bite an apple. The special part and wretchedness part of life needs one another. While it inspires us, the other is there to soften us. So they always go together.
No matter where you find yourself, it's only you who have dominion over your mind, those beliefs of yours, and your attitudes. Looking at situation and letting go through excuses maybe blame, then you believe you can alter your position on your own, doing that you're depriving the system, the man, even the ism controlling you.
There is no limit to what you can achieve when you believe in yourself, but this only happens if you start from where you are today, if you don’t take the necessary steps needed to make them happen, then dreams are just mirages that mess with your head!
When you have a dream and the desire to pursue it with every fiber of your being, but you can't move past mere excuses or some circumstances that seem to be standing in your way, then you'll find yourself at that same spot many more years to come. Shake up your life, reinvent in yourself, Infuse your life with action. Don't wait for it to happen. Make it happen. Make your own future. Make your own hope. Make your own love. And whatever your beliefs, honor your creator, not by passively waiting for grace to come down from upon high, but by doing what you can to make grace happen... yourself, right now, right down here on Earth.
The truth is, at the end of the day, you are solely responsible for your success and your failure. And the sooner you realize that, you accept that, and integrate that into your work ethic, you will start being successful. As long as you blame others for the reason you aren't where you want to be, you will always be a failure.