I know that times have changed, people are doing more talking than when I came along. Also children are different, the bible says the each generation is smarter than the next and I believe that. So different way of discipline is the key, as long as there is some form of it. Learning to respect others is the other factor. Never stop asking the questions and talking about a better ways and share love with children. One thing my mother always told us, if you are going to physically discipline a child use something other than your hands because hands are used for love and that is something that something that you never want to confuse a child with.