Anything, only the heart of the heart, can get along for a long time.
The so-called high emotional quotient is to know how to think in a different position. These three pictures reveal the truth of transposition thinking, and you must know.
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Life transposition thinking.
Treasure is worthy of possession
A pig, a sheep and a cow were kept in the same corral by the shepherd. One day, the herdsman caught the pig out of the corral, only to hear the pig shout loudly, strong resistance.
The sheep and the cow hated his cry, and complained, "We are often caught by the herdsmen, and none of us are as loud as you." "
The pig responded:
"to catch you and to catch me is a completely different matter. He only wants your hair and milk to catch you, but to catch me is to kill me! "
Life is alive, each has its own life, also has its own suffering. Because of their different positions and different circumstances, it is very difficult to feel the same things.
Life is not easy. When you feel easy, it must be someone for you to bear that is not easy, life often transposition thinking, cherish only deserve to have.
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Thought of transposition of ideas.
Understanding is the only way to be grateful
One invited a blind friend to dinner and ate late. Blind friend says it's late. I'm going back. The master lit a lantern for him, and he said angrily, "I can't see it. Don't you laugh at me when you give me a lantern?" "
The master said, "because I care about you, I give you a lantern. You can't see it and others can see it, so you can walk in the dark and you won't be afraid of being hit by others." "
If you look at everything from a different angle, you will have different opinions. If you have different opinions, the results will be different.
Trying to understand what other people think.
Broaden your horizons and leave your troubles at a distance. Try to think differently and think for others.
Understand the helplessness of others, grateful for their own luck, you may feel that suddenly: the world is so beautiful!!!
Change the way of thinking, change the way of living, life may have a different landscape.
In the process of existence of life, dissatisfactory, disagreeable heart often, the mood is also easily depressed and melancholy.
Once encountered unhappy thing, might as well adjust own mentality, changes an angle, can see the different scenery.
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Position transposition thinking.
To respect others is to respect oneself
If you see 6 or 9, the key is where we are.
What angle do you use to look at such things, different views, the results are also very different!
In one story, famed inspirational success guru Napoleon Hill, who needed to hire a secretary one year, advertised in several newspapers. As a result, the application letter flew in like a snowflake.
But most of these letters are the same. For example, the first sentence almost always likes to start like this:
"I saw your advertisement in the newspaper for a secretary, and I hope to be able to apply for the position.
I am so and so years old, graduated from the school, if I am honored to be selected by you, I will work hard. "
Napoleon Hill was so disappointed that he was wondering whether to give up the hiring plan when a letter gave him a fresh hope that the secretary would be the master of the letter.
Her letter reads as follows:
"to your credit: your advertisement will certainly attract hundreds or even thousands of cover letters, and I believe your work must be so busy that you don't have enough time to read it carefully."
Therefore, you just need to gently dial this call, I would be happy to come over to help you organize the letter, to save you valuable time.
You have no doubt about my ability and quality because I have 15 years of secretarial experience. "
Later Napoleon Hill said:
The world is yours to know how to think differently, to really look at problems from someone else's point of view, to think about problems, and to help others solve problems.
Transpose thinking, know but difficult to do. This is because we are used to seeing things from our point of view and seeking our own interests.
It is always a bad conclusion to look at others in your own position.
And only by thinking in a different position, comparing heart to heart, and putting oneself in consideration of each other's feelings, can we create a good interpersonal relationship.
Life is an echo. A rose is a gift, and a lingering fragrance in one's hand. Those who love to go back, and those who go are blessed.