- Money ... before the wedding and after the wedding
That year, you were 23 years old. First debut girlfriend home, meet parents.
Actually, before you ever video chat with them. But this time more special, enthusiastic parents invited you to play home. Sitting in front of a hearty rice bowl, the official meeting, you have some insecurity, nervous, anxious.
Eat half a meal, your girlfriend naturally began talking, first the problems around your life, then the conversation began to go to the main issue.
When to buy a home?
Next, his girlfriend also began to speak slowly, his son-in-law Liu, who had just bought a three-bedroom apartment, two living rooms.
You do not know how to respond to them. In your mind, for you now say the greatest value asset is only the bank card with a month 7 million dollars poured about every month.
Then, the air on the table began to cool gradually. You quickly finish eating rice, find a good reason the company has to apply for permission to leave.
A week later, you date girlfriend out, gently say farewell.
She is crying, like a silversmith, you coldly turn away in another direction.
Not you do not love her, nor your heart ruthless. You simply begin to understand, just love is not enough, love does not attach material attached, sooner or later will each one one place.
While it may not be important to love money, it's a completely different thing to marry.
- You are 26 years old, you finally accumulate a few for yourself
In these three years, you go to work in the city, looking for new opportunities. You sell the network work, wholeheartedly for work, because want to sign contracts with guests, even drink to the extent of gastric bleeding also bite the teeth bear.
Your salary doubles, you start feeling your life may have turned to a new turning point, feeling yourself filled with new energy, you decide to buy a home.
Smile with the housing consultant to see the house.
You find the apartment, the environment is very good, convenient transportation, not far away from the company, supermarket, shopping mall just under the house, around the school for your children to go to school later. ...
But when it comes to price, you silent. Housing prices rise too fast, too much of your imagination.
You go home, decide to wait a while longer, waiting for housing prices to settle down to buy. But after you surf your face, read the newspaper, see a state line, people are flocking to buy a house, even queue all night to buy the apartment as well.
You know, you can not run the price of housing, if not buy now, afraid that there will never be a chance.
You make up your mind, call your parents, borrow 500 million of their old age savings.
Three days later, borrowed money back down you accumulate enough deposit, you take money to sign home purchase contract.
The moment put pen to sign contract, cayenne pepper spicy, eyes slightly smeared. There is good money. As a man, the more you are aware, the more money you have, the more you have a home, the more stable your life.
- Four months before your 28th birthday, you lose your current job
Being forced to quit, the corporation suddenly canceled the Northern Office without any prior notice, after receiving compensation payments, you officially became unemployed.
You start looking for new jobs, from north to south.
You suddenly find out, after 30 years, the more difficult to find work.
If you do not have a very low salary, then you are extremely demanding, not only you have to compete with thousands of graduates, you are always in a state of "falling horse" at any time. any.
After paying three months rent, you suddenly discovered, in the bank card is now only two million right.
Fortunately, before the 28th birthday, you find a new job.
Although the company is away from home, but in the immediate future all favorable, things go smoothly.
Therefore, your birthday at 28, you especially give yourself a small birthday cake. In candlelight, you silently desire life will be better.
Not self-relief. That you start to understand, sometimes, have a stable income, is also a warmth. At least it can sustain your present life, you are not burdened rice rice money to hit the ground. Important is not 'important' but ... important is money.