Beautiful Piece Hive account@chbartist, you have captured it all well.

I remembered the story of an uncle that was all out for money at the expense of his family, his excuse was he was making the money for the wife, after several years, he has made enough and ready to enjoy time with his family, the wife welcomed him with the divorce papers, all plea to the lady landed on deaf hears.

He is enjoying his money all alone with his wife and kids not wanting to see him ever again.

We shouldn't chase one at the expense of the other.