REACTION vs. RESPONS
An inspiring story behind a disgusting cockroach.
● In a restaurant, a cockroach suddenly flies from somewhere and lands on a woman. He started screaming in terror. With a panicked face and a trembling voice, he started to jump, with both his hands struggling to get rid of the cockroach. His reaction was contagious to others, because everyone in his group also became panicked. The woman finally managed to push the cockroach away but ... the cockroach landed on the shoulders of another woman in her group. Now, it was the turn of another woman in her group to continue the panic and fear.
Suddenly A waitress rushed forward to rescue them. In the intermittent session, the next cockroach falls on the maid.
The lady waiter stood firm, composed herself and observed the cockroach behavior on her shirt.
When he is confident enough, he grabs the cockroach with his fingers and throws it out of the restaurant.
From this drama scene there are some thoughts that can come up and start wondering whether the cockroaches are responsible for their uproar behavior? If so, then why did the waitress not be disturbed?
He has handled the event with near perfect, without any clutter.
"Then what message can we get from the incident earlier?"
First we think .. Why woman woman had panicked, while woman who waiter can calmly expel cockroach?
It was obviously not because of the culprit that caused it, but because the response was what caused the commotion.
It is because of the inability of both women had to face the cockroach that makes the cafe atmosphere so chaotic.
Cockroaches are disgusting. And he will stay that way forever. ..... and Can not we change the cockroach to be cute and adorable.
Likewise, with a problem, like Stuck in the streets, or a nagging wife, a traitorous friend, a powerless boss, a subservient subordinate, a big target, a tight deadline, a demanding customer, an annoying neighbor,
Until whenever it will never be fun. But that's not what messed things up. It is our inability to face what makes it so.
What bothered her was not a cockroach, but her inability to cope with the disorder caused by the cockroach.
So from there we can conclude, that; not the shouts of the kits father or our boss or our wives that bother us, ... but ...... it is our inability to handle the disturbances caused by their disturbing screams
Our reaction to that problem actually creates more chaos in our lives than the problem itself.
What is the wisdom behind this inspirational story?
Women react, while waiters respond.
Reaction is always instinctive while the response is always well thought out.
A wonderful way to understand LIFE.
People are HAPPY not because everything is going right in life ..
He is HAPPY because his attitude in responding to everything in his life is true ..!
That's about the wisdom that can be drawn from an inspirational story above.
"The problem is a problem ..... RESPONSE we will determine how the end of a problem ...."
Let my friends make anding from the problems we face to be something happy.
Stop for us to blame the situation or anything that ultimately it is a problem
from today we learn to respond correctly to the problems we face.