A few days ago, a Netizen on social software on his weekend breakfast, a glass of milk soup, a custard sandwich, delicate plate, photos also take beautiful, people will be happy to see.
However, some people commented below that "true! "" I can only say that you have been playing half a day in order to take pictures. "
There is never a shortage of such barbiters on the Internet. If he eats fast food, you can't have an exquisite meal. He is perfunctory in life. Whenever you use snacks for life, he says you "make" and "pretend".
Mr Muxin said: "In life, we need a little more than the appearance of diesel oil and salt. "
For a person, if the only answer to life is perfunctory, boring, then what is there to look forward to?
If the dignified treatment of life, the pursuit of a little ritual in the life of war and chaos, is the "doing" in the eyes of these barbiters, then I am sorry, I like this "doing" a little life.
I:
Take everyday people seriously and never live too badly.
The American drama Desperate Housewives has a saying: "No matter how tired we are, we must maintain a romantic feelingFormalism, though not so good, is better than being too lazy to go through the motions. "
Pick up some food from the refrigerator and make a meal. A room full of cluttered clothes can also be used to live in people. It is also a day to spend the weekend at home playing with mobile phones. .. .. .. .. ..
But such a day, always feel like a pool of stagnant water, there is no hope.
Songpumitailang, who is known as "the most livable man in Japan," has a well-known way of life. It is to take a serious and solemn attitude and look at all the trivial things in life that seem to be unimportant.
He stipulated that employees should leave work at 5:30 PM every day to accompany children, meet friends, find food, and discover the fun of life.
He insisted on buying flowers once a week and cutting his hair twice a week.
In his life, every little thing has its significance, even a cup of cereal, fried an egg, are solemn and ceremonial.
Covered in the sun after the light fragrance of cotton quilt to sleep, get up early on the weekend, clean the clothes sheets, and clean the sofa and table.
Plant a few plants on the balcony, keep a pet that can snuggle at the feet, and dress the house beautifully. .. .. .. .. ..
It is not about who to look at it, but hoping that these small rituals of life will make a mark for ordinary life like a ring, so that even plain days are worth celebrating.
Life is nothing but the sum of every day.
Take every day seriously so that you won't be wronged by life.
II:
The more dusty the face of the day, the more must live hot.
Some people say that the routine of life is to give you three days of lemon, one day of sugar.
In life, the plain hard is always the majority, happy is always a few interesting.
And that's why we need some steaming fun to release our unhappiness, give hope to a hopeless life, like a farewell ceremony to a bad life, and start a whole new journey.
Zhang Yihe told the story of Kang Youwei's daughter Kangtongbi's mother and daughter in "The Last Aristocrat." In the crazy ten years, Kangtongbi and her daughter did not escape and were looted.
"I love flowers, they are gone. I love music. It's gone. .. .. .. .. .. "Kangtongbi sighed:" For me, it is where the veins are broken! "
But even if the veins were broken, she still lived as poetry.
The Narcissus opened, and they put "red paper circles on each stem." Narcissus have their own spring meaning, and this inch of red brings out a festive atmosphere.
Even if it is difficult to eat only steamed bread and fermented milk, it is necessary to use several different iron boxes to pack different tastes, Guangdong fermented milk, Shaoxing fermented milk, and rose fermented milk. .. .. .. .. ..
More soup, sprinkle on the curds, lift your chest back smoothly.
Who hasn't been bullied by life, but many of us leave traces on our faces.
Because of a moment of frustration, on the face of dust, because of the hardships of life, on the casual make do with life.
If the routine of life is three days of lemon, one day of sugar.
The ritual sense of life and small taste, the most can resolve the long trivial life of the variety and discord, will be sour lemonade like sweet.
Three:
Ordinary as you and I, also deserve better.
It is often asked: Why is it so easy to make do, and it is necessary to take time to prepare a good and delicious breakfast? Why do you have to pay a lot for a nice set of cutlery on any plate?
I usually answer, Because I'm worth it.
Wang Xiaobo said: "The poetic life is not an affective creation, but in the ordinary life, let yourself bring a little style and taste to do things, and live a romantic and interesting life, not to let yourself live rough. "
Just like in the movie "Tiffany's Breakfast," Aodailiheben plays Holly, who always likes to wear a black dress and dress beautifully. In front of Tiffany's window, he gently and calmly eats breakfast.
She enjoyed every morning, every moment, as if she were a feast, even the ordinary, uncommonly crocheted bread and hot coffee.
I have always felt that the meaning of life may be that even one person can make life hot.
It doesn't have to be an expensive French meal or an upscale five-star restaurant. It may just be a heart-to-heart meal at home, with favorite tablecloths, and the right mix and placement of food.
Even if it is ordinary like you and me, it is worth the better food, the more exquisite utensils, the favor of a bunch of flowers, a tablecloth, and the time and thought of ourselves and others.
This is not "doing" or "pretending", but treating oneself and life seriously and solemnly.
Write a short mood diary every day; Set aside half an hour of absolute solitude for yourself every day; For a week each year, go to the seaside or the river and watch the water flow. .. .. .. .. ..
Live your life the way you like, and live up to others and yourself.
If that's what people think it is, let's keep doing it, because I really don't want to be the best, the worst, the worst, the cheapest.
