Thanks but you must know it wasn't a day's job. It took a lot of hard work. I can remember in high school, I used to be this quiet going person. One day, a juvenille got me so angry by following me around and calling me names because I was fat. I was so angry and was ready to fight. My tutor saw me and asked what happened, I was so angry I couldn't even get myself to talk, but he got the gist. He just told me, 'If you fight with him, you are not different from him'. And I started reading books on it, understanding the weak nature of man, working on emotions, and i gradually got there. Today, I hardly pay attention to people who are set to hurt me, let alone plan a vengeful act against them.