I sit in darkness and to me very lonely, after a wall mother and father. To me sheet of paper, round me my ideas and music, she fills space and is feeling that you not alone, but it is an illusion only. Illusions fill our life fully.
you were born. Round a doctor, train nurse. Alongside mother, she waited you and will love in future, wait and it is simple to save. But it is an illusion of security only, you feel that who that, very for you important, always with you not dependency upon circumstances and period of life. But it not so. Sooner or later parents us will abandon. Who that will say to "eat sisters brothers, of wife husbands ". They are, but they are not present. Why? For you with them connection, but remember moments, when you are vulnerable and it appears that they are not present. All have problems, there is no time them. Similarly we act and we in relation to them. Even understanding it we tell itself,that it for the last time, but.
A phrase is here recalled "While will do nobody will do" and it ALAS right. There is a great number of moments giving understood it, about that we will talk a bit later.
At short notice would like to be shared out with by you by a situation that not rareness at majority. All have a man to that we bind life. That with that we complement each other in everything. To divide all troubles, of gladness, caring etc. But not always turns out so. Reasons are much. One of them not desire to understand each other, based on egoism. To overcome egoism, and and proudness is difficult. Not all can do it and does not want it. In the total we become lonely and angered on everything. In the total send to that with what began are YOU! Who it is herein needed to blame?? Can itself or neighbour, can spouse or chief on work. Thinking, it appears that blaming is needed all. And if all are identical, then means, nobody is guilty! As nobody, you?? will ask Well in fact if all are identical and all culprits and the right are not present, the guilty are not present.
Exits : either to engage in self digging or understand what all began from. The self digging is easier and more credible. We fall in dejection we begin to avoid people, depression, heavy music, phrases about,that all people this evil, that it I spoiled everything. It not so )), a bit sober and hard reason and all becomes into the places. And here does an idea come "As a that man, could that your half, to compel you so feel below par"? but blaming him is not necessary, he the same as well as you and in this moment he is visited by the same ideas, that results in a conclusion - in a difficult situation with her will be to be celebrated. And only since your inner world all right and harmonies, all appears not so sadly and you are ready to forgive and understand practically any hasty act. It is now necessary to think why all went out from under control, but in a head nothing comes. "Why"?, everybody will ask itself. An answer is not present to regrets. But a situation decided. Because we changed attitude toward her. Turns out any situation is necessary to be examined from a few points. People see only bad, she appears simpler than all and can justify you. )) But justifying is not necessary, to understand - that is important here.
In the total all, that the good and bad is can be,what is wished by us to see. We is our life. Family, friends and all that surrounds us, unfortunately for many, bonus or gadget to whom how pleasingly. Not all it is accessible to.