Emmy! (Erin here) You are an amazing woman and that dream board strategy is very real! I remember you shared some experiences from that past relationship. I think it is an important lesson because we learn what we don't like. When we are young it is easy to make a mental note of what it is that we want. For me I realized I didn't have any idea of what I didn't want in many aspects of my life until after I had that experience. LOVE you and your spirit! xoxo