Good afternoon steemit friends all.
Someone once told me that being a widow in the general public is like walking in one shoe, uncomfortable and pouted by everyone.
When I am no longer married, I do not know what to expect, I feel like a tree rooted out. This internal shift has already weighed heavily on my mind, coupled with the increasingly exacerbating external pressure of the mind.
I have much to learn to prepare for the big changes in life.
I have to repeat once again enjoying being single and loving myself.
As a trick for me to be able to live quietly;
- avoid joining a group of housewife mothers. Because we will feel offended, when they exchange stories about their husbands' habits.
- join a group of single people, because we are more experienced in dating and married life, while they still wonder what happens after marriage.
- look for useful activities, for those who have never worked, we will enjoy the world of workers and grow in them.
- we must be humble and not judge the situation of others because we ourselves have experienced it.
- love for ourselves and the people closest to us who are always on our side, because we will be closer to God.
Thus our lives undergo a major change and this will greatly affect our perspective in living our lives, in the hope that we will become wiser and more concerned with each other.
If our friends avoid us, it is not because we become contemptible in their eyes, sometimes they are also afraid of not deliberately offending us, for example by talking about things or events related to our lives before the widow.Maybe they do not know how to entertain us, and we should not be prejudiced against others. And we must be sure that this is only temporary.
Someday our true friends will return to us soon.
This is all I can tell you about the widow life tricks.
That is all and thank you