Why does our society love the cult of trauma so much?

In this beautiful world full of tragedies, dramas, ruined families, hatred, trauma, hypercompensation, hypercontrol, painful hypoxia, it is very difficult to be just a normal person.

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The timely cult of Trauma taught us that infringement, violence, and personal dramas give us Value and increase our Importance.

If you didn’t just live your life, but OVERCOME EVERY MINUTE through pain - then you are a man with a capital letter, a real person.

But if you are alive, healthy, mentally intact, if you are happily married, love mom and dad and this is mutual, you do not have stories that you want to sob about, then you are an empty place. You do not need to go against someone in spite, you do not need to break your nose for a high idea.

If I could cross out one thing from the entire space-time continuum once and for all, it would be an excuse.

No thing is more meaningless and harmful. Especially when it comes to the alleged superiority of overcoming negative experiences over getting positive experiences.

Regardless of the background, you should never be embarrassed that everything is in order. You shouldn’t even have such a thought. There have always been and will be people, looking at whom we think we can do that too. That the world is bigger than it seems, and we matter in it.

Such people should shine, not be embarrassed.

Shine and you.