Every human on this earth, must have ngerasain whose name 'Broken Heart'. Nonsense if lu say ga ever. Because honestly, I'm a man, never ngerasain whose name is broken heart. In fact many things can be nominated in this category of 'Broken Heart', for example:
A child who is sad because ga bought a new toy every time the road to the mall * but at home already a pile of toys *.
A student who is sad because it can be a red report card.
An employee who was barked by his boss because his hard work did not satisfy his boss.
And above all, one who is heartbroken by being left by his soul mate for some reason.
All the examples above, we all must have ngalaminnya. But without us knowing it, all can happen because there is cause. No smoke if there is no fire. The little boy who was crying because he did not buy his parents toys, probably because the good intentions of his parents who do not want to spoil his son. Come to think of it, whenever you go to the mall, have to buy a toy? Can-can his house be a special mall toys later.
A student who is sad to see his report card. If the report card is red, there must be a reason. Maybe the student was not focused. Focus on lessons, focus on teachers, or even focus on school goals. And a student should be heartbroken, because maybe, with a red report card, he will make other people heartbreak too. Parents. Many more events that make us, human broken hearts. Moreover in terms of 'love'. This is the case most often experienced by human beings both children, to parents.
Learning from the story of his 'half salmon' Raditya Dika, I take a lot of lessons from his writing, especially about 'displacement'. Each of us must have been sad when we have to move class time to go to class. We must ninggalin class atmosphere that already comfortable for us, meet with new friends, and adapt again with a new class. But the displacement is absolutely must we run. Moving home, home is a place that should be comfortable for us, because the house is where we take refuge, where we joke with our loved ones, parents. But all will feel heavy if we have to ninggalin home for the sake of new home nempatin.
The atmosphere must be different, his bedroom, his living room, the door, the terrace, even the location of the instant noodle storage cupboard must be different. But it all depends on whether we want to quickly adapt or guns. Same is the heartbreak of love. Someone who is a broken heart will certainly feel the world will end, either he cowo atopun girl * this situation only applies to those who really love their partner *. He'll be alone, his mind will not focus, more often reflected.
She would also think, she would not live without her former lover, and by then, all the memories of their togetherness would have crossed the human brain. It's all natural. It's all normal. Because broken hearts are part of the thousand feelings we have to feel. But there will be a phase where we must let go. We must also feel sorry for ourselves. We must dare to step.
It is useless to grasp something that we grasp more and more, it will make our heart sick. And what we hold is the unwillingness to see him happy with the others. We must dare to move. And one thing I get from the 'half salmon' snippet is, to be a super human, we do not need to be super hero, we just need to be half salmon man, just need to dare to move.
It's useless to drag on in sadness, not necessarily the person we cry about thinking about us. What we need to take from the bitter experience is just a wisdom, and learn to be a human being better than ever. Maybe we can not be happy for our ex-lovers,