We often hear kid shouting "no" and asking why? it was all because they were curious, the can not wait to find out many things in a short time. Although unfortunately, not all of our explanations can be digested and understood at once.
In this age, they learn a lot, if they encounter problems. When they was confused about how to take a doll on the table, they learned to take it by climbing into a chair.
Therefore, they does not like to be forbidden to do other things, because it prevents them from learning things.
The following tips prohibit kid aged 2-3 years:
Focus on their correct behavior and give their appreciation, it's better than just focusing on mistakes and forbidding and punishing. For example by saying, "Well now sister already clever. Now if you want to play the ball outside ok. Mother so no need to ban playing in the house again,
Limit the use of the word "no" and "do not". It's time to think more positively and start to trust them, if you do not want to hear they always say the same thing. so they can always trust you.
Do not prohibit by bribing. For example, "If a sister does not watch TV, then buy a chocolate mother!" Often bribe the toddler to obey the ban makes them do something for the promised lure and not because he is aware of his behavior. Better say, "Watch TV is only 1 hour, if long-time eyes can be damaged and you forget to play outside."
Occasional bans, occasionally negotiating. That's because, the kid is getting bigger, can be invited to negotiate and we need to hear their opinion. For example, if they wants to play when you forbid because it's time to sleep, then say, "Okey, little sister can play a while longer while mother bathing. But if you're done bathing, you have to sleep! "
If a they often says, "No way," or "Can not," they really needs to be reassured by you that they can. In addition, they have also started smart and can be invited to negotiate. It would be more fun to them than if they were to do something authoritarian.
May be useful..